LET’S LOOK FOR THE GOOD

Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things. – Philippians 4:8

The first time I heard this passage I was a child and my young heart seemed to jump up and down while my soul said: Yes! Yes! Yes!

All these years later, I still experience a strong resonance whenever I hear these words and act upon them.  

I have found myself applying them a lot lately. 

For example, like millions of people, I felt hurt and horror about the attack on the women and children traveling in Mexico near the U.S. border. But my heart was uplifted when I heard about the 13-year old boy who bravely hid his injured siblings, covered them with branches, and walked many miles through the Sonoran desert for help.   

I’m reminded that the beauty, strength, courage, wisdom, and love in that boy are present in all children. These gifts are in you and me and in every one of us. They are in people who don’t seem to have knowledge or appreciation of them or the inclination to use their noble qualities. 

Demonstrations of goodness and beauty don’t cancel out or change the reality of violence. But they can keep us from sinking into fear, depression, hate, and despair. They can move us toward constructive and loving actions.

Let’s look for the good in ourselves, one another, and the world. May seeing it feed our faith, heighten our hope, and deepen our desire to respond to life with courage, compassion, hope, and love…with all that is noble and beautiful in us. 

Yes? Yes? Yes?
Charlene

A TWELVE GIFTS RETREAT

LIVING THE TWELVE GIFTS: DO WHAT MAKES YOU STRONG
You are invited!

LIVING THE TWELVE GIFTS: DO WHAT MAKES YOU STRONG
A Healing, Well-Being & Peace Retreat at
The Franciscan Renewal Center in Scottsdale, Arizona,
also known as “the CASA.”
Friday, October 25 through Sunday, October, 27

Presented by cancer survivor and award-winning author, Charlene Costanzo, this experiential program will explore ways to tap into your inner strength, beauty, courage, compassion, hope, joy, talent, imagination, reverence, wisdom love, and faith in order to embrace life no matter what is happening in your personal world and in the whole world.

Recognizing the dignity and worth of all people is a significant part of The Twelve Gifts message and of this event. Each participate in this active, inspirational, and somewhat playful retreat will take home a personalized “tool kit,” used for daily inspiration and empowerment.

Fee: $135, commuter includes meals; with lodging, single, $250; double, $150 per person.
Pre-registration is required.

Franciscan Renewal Center 5802 East Lincoln Drive
Scottsdale, Arizona 85253

480.948.7460 phone
800.356.3247 toll free
thecasa.org
All are welcome.
To register, visit thecasa.org or call 480.948.7460

Every CASA spiritual retreat includes options for single or double occupancy rooms with private bath; pool, spa, putting green; on-site dining; numerous outdoor amenities, including a desert walk and healing garden, and a variety of places to pause and reflect in a peaceful environment.

MIRACLES: YOU ARE ONE

“If we could see the miracle of a single flower clearly our whole life would change.”~ Buddha

Imagine if we suddenly saw into the miracle of human beings as Thomas Merton did on a street corner in Louisville, Kentucky on March 18, 1958. We would be so awe-struck that we might laugh, cry out, fall down, or become numb. Surely, we would change the way we lived the rest of our days.

Our life would change if we saw clearly the miracle of a tree, a blade of grass, a bird, of light, of the air we breathe, of water.

Slowly, it is happening. Despite evidence to the contrary, we are waking up. We’re beginning to see less dimly. But why wait? Until we see clearly, let’s choose to live reverently and lovingly, as if we have seen.

With awe,
Charlene

LET’S MAKE BEAUTY

“To me, art is about arranging certain stuff, in a certain order, in a certain place, with a certain end in mind.” ~ Walter Hamady

Years ago, while walking along the beach on Sanibel Island, I came across this beach garden. While other families were making sand castles, one family had gathered beach debris and transformed it into their own unique expression of beach art.

We can all do that with the stuff of our lives – arrange it in a certain way to give it order and meaning and beauty – and make art. 

Let’s aim to look at things this way. How might I transform this? That? Make beauty? Make art? Make a difference? We are all meant to create.

With love and imagination,
Charlene

HIGHER GROUND: IT’S WHERE WE NEED TO BE

“We can find common ground only by moving to higher ground.” ~ Jim Wallis

Recently, I’ve been posting the message “Let’s find COMMON GROUND. MIDDLE GROUND. HOLY GROUND. HIGHER GROUND” on various photos of feet: toddler feet, bare feet, booted feet. 

I had thought the natural progression from divisiveness to unity was from common ground, to middle ground, to a potent place where miracles can happen as we bring our minds and hearts to higher ground.

However, after coming upon this Jim Wallis quote and considering it, I realize that the very intention, the sincere aiming, to find common ground is done on higher ground. It starts there. 

Whether it’s a relationship renewal between two people or building unity among many…it begins when we have stepped up.

Once there, we move about seeking common ground and middle ground. It’s like a dance. We may at first step on each other’s toes. But if we stick it out, we’ll gain some grace and reach higher ground together. 

Higher ground is always near, nearer than we think. We can reach it anytime. We just have to choose to take the step up. That often takes putting ego aside. But it is so beautiful to dance, walk, talk, work, live – be – in peace and harmony with one another. It’s wise and healthy too. 

Higher ground. Let’s go there.

With love and hope,
Charlene 

LET’S GROW LOVE

“Love one another and help others to rise to the higher levels, simply by pouring out love. Love is infectious and the greatest healing energy.”   
– Sai Baba 

As you probably know, the number of mass shootings in the United States so far this year is more than one a day.

Something must be done. Many things must be done on many levels and from many angles.

One thing you and I can do is increase the level of love among us. Seriously. 

Yes, we must address rising stress, fear and hate, mental health, gun control, racism, injustice, wages…many issues. Absolutely. 

But let’s not dismiss or trivialize the power of love. And let’s not just think about this. Let’s act with love, choosing to love in every encounter, in every situation, with every person, every day.

Truly,
Charlene

 

MAY THE LIGHT POUR IN

Consider this image of us woven into one lace-like fabric.

The fabric that we are “consists of holes, but also of threads that tie us together, said Kayla Severson. “The more we embrace our fragility and shared sufferings, the more boundaries we overcome, until the light can’t help but pour on in.” 

Let’s recognize our common threads, embrace our shared sufferings, and acknowledge how basic human needs are woven within us.

Surely you’ve noticed at one time or another what happens when you are kind to a stranger.

I’ve noticed that feelings of connection happen whenever I treat a so-called “stranger” with respect, interest, and caring. I feel uplifted and the other person looks lifted. We smile at each other. Occasionally we hug. Sometimes we tear.

Can you imagine what would happen if millions of us acted kindly toward all the people with whom we share life on earth now?

Amazing changes would come about. Light and love will pour in. 
 

What are we waiting for?

Choosing love,
Charlene